Catch up on my Mom and some awesome pics

These first few comeback blogs will be from Abby's perspective or narrative as her Mom thinks it is

My Mom has been complaining of back,neck and shoulder pain for over a year. When she finally got someone to take an MRI of her neck she had Neuro Surgery a few days later. She has some extreme problems with her left shoulder too but they wont address that until 3 months after her neck surgery. She is trying and I have had lots of nurses in her helping her help me as she hasn't been able to lift me and can barely help me at all. We are going to get her better. It will just take a while. I'm kind of done waiting and want my Mom back!

The week before my Moms surgery a friend of a friend, who is now our friend took some amazing pics of us the week before Mothers Day. They came out pretty cool. I wasn't feeling too hot that day but the pictures are amazing.

 This one is our favorite

 I was watching the waterfall. I love water

 I was getting pretty grumpy here so we are watching Dora just out of the shot of the camera

Our friend Cynthia had loaned us this beautiful gown. I felt like a real Princess! After she saw the pics she gave it to me!!!

 I think this was close to the last shot. Getting sleepy. We are thinking of getting one of these matted and framed. Krissy B Designs did an awesome job. She was very patient. We highly recommend her!

My Mom took this one with her iPhone while Krissy was setting up. I think its beautiful!

We are back!

I have missed my blog and am re opening it. There are some things I want to say before we all proceed.

1. It's my blog. Not yours. My thoughts, my feelings, my life and my experiences. Take your criticism and negativity and take it somewhere else. If you don't like me, what I saw or how I parent walk away. You choose to look for me and what I am doing.

2. Comments, spam and stats. I approve all comments before they are posted so when trying to rip me one with false information or negativity know that you and me are the only ones who will see it. Same goes with spam. Don't post generic whatever my title was links to your stuffy waste of your time. Stats. I know what search engine, city blog, website you came from and words you used to get here. Don't be a hater.

3.Do not judge me on the opinion of others. Have you met me? Walked in my shoes, cared for my daughter? No? Shut it.

4. I started this blog for a few reasons. First and foremost the reason I do almost everything. So another parent can come somewhere where someone gets it. To find info and encouragement. So people all over the world who love and care for Abby can keep up on her....and occasionally the people she loves.

5. I am human. I am not just the words typed on this screen. I am a mother, a wife, a friend, a smartass. I love fiercely and I fight the same way. Not everyone cares for me. That's cool. I get it. Don't care anymore but to each their own. I can almost, almost guarantee you that if you have seen me give a speech , watched me care for my child or yours you don't feel the same way as someone who hates to hate. I'm loud, I'm bossy. I have tattoos. I'm in your face when provoked. I will also sing a child to sleep or giggles, comfort a parent until they can breathe again and be the best inspiration you have ever seen. Please take your ignorance and move on to something or someone else.

For the rest of you .....
Big hugs. More to come soon!