Wednesday, October 12, 2011

In Abby's name

Dear friends,

October is Rett Syndrome Awareness month and just a few days ago Gov Jay Nixon once again in the state of Missouri.

AS some of you are aware...every year in April and October I attempt to raise funds for research in Abby's name. So far this month we have raised $0.00. That's a tiny little stab in the heart. So, Id like to ask any of my friends or readers that can afford to make a tax deductible donation in my Abby's name. Do so by going to http://girls.girlpower2cure.org/abby

We work very hard in this house to keep awareness and the need for funding for our cure alive and want to remind everyone that Rett Syndrome had been reversed in the lab. We only lack the funding to in getting this to our girls.

Please keep Abby and all the girls living with this terrible disorder in your thoughts and prayers.
Thanks
Terri

Monday, October 3, 2011

Mom on a mIssion. Thank you Lisa and RettGirl

This is the blog of should have written when I broke down with my last post. Sorry about that. It happens.

The day after I wrote mine I was asked to guest blog on the Autism blog "Seven Yuck Mouths and Autism" by a friend I have met online throught A4CWSN.

It just flowed when it was something to educate the general public and not me blubbering here. We decided to also post it on the Blog I help out with for Girl Power 2 Cure.

Thank you Lisa for allowing me to spread the world on your wonderful website and Ingrid for allowing me to get personal on RettGirl.


Here it is:

It's Rett Syndrome Awareness Month - let's make some noise!

It's me, Terri. I am Mom, Rett Mom, Advocate, wife and all around Autism awareness terrorist. I run RettGirl.org and a YouTube channel called Rett We Can for Girl Power2 Cure.

Why? Well thank you, I’m so glad you asked. I hope you can pass on this blog and help us spread the word about the hundreds of thousands of girls fighting Rett Syndrome.


My 7-year-old daughter Abby has Rett Syndrome - an X Chromosome Linked form of Autism and the only form of Autism with a known genetic cause. Because the gene mutation is on the X Chromosome, it mainly affects girls, but there are a handful of boys that have it too and they are just as deeply affected.

The gene of which we speak is called MECP2. It is known as the regulatory gene between your brain and your body. It is the gene that tells every other gene when to turn on and off. Strangely, this gene doesn’t play much of a role until your child is between 18 months and 2 years of age. Up to that point you have a seemingly normal, typical child doing all the things they are supposed to do.

Once this gene kicks on, if it is faulty like in Rett Syndrome, everything start s to shut down. There is a rapid period of regression where most every acquired skill is lost. Most purposeful hand use disappears almost immediately and is replaced with a constant wringing, tapping or hand mouthing. All speech goes during this regression stage, and your child turns physically back into an infant where she will stay…trapped in her own body until a cure is found.

Good news! Rett Syndrome is poised to be the first curable neurological disorder. It was announced in 2007 that Rett Syndrome had been reversed in laboratory mouse models. It’s there and until we can get it funded in a way that gets it right for humans, our babies remain locked in a world they can only observe.

One major debilitating factor in Rett Syndrome is called Apraxia. Apraxia is like this: the will to carry out intent is there, but the physical ability is severely delayed or not there at all. Some describe it as having Autism, Cerebral Palsy and Parkinson’s all rolled up in one little girl.

Need to Knows:


  • Debilitating neurological (movement) disorder that predominantly affects females.

  • Baby girls are born "normal" but begin to lose acquired skills between the ages of 1-3 years old.

  • Caused by a single gene mutation that leads to underproduction of an important brain protein.

  • The most severe form of autism.

  • The leading genetic cause of severe impairment in girls - most cannot speak, walk or use their hands.

  • Despite their physical disabilities, girls with Rett Syndrome are believed to be functioning mentally at a much higher level than previously thought.

  • As prevalent as Cystic Fibrosis, ALS and Huntington's.

  • Another little girl is born with Rett Syndrome every 90 minutes.

  • Rett Syndrome is a potentially REVERSIBLE disorder. Research has proven once protein levels are back to normal levels, symptoms subside.

Why have I never heard of this you may ask? That’s why we are here today. To inform, educate and raise awareness so little girls like my Abby will no longer be held in the unknown.

Want to learn more about Abby and contribute to research? Follow this link to her personal story at Girl Power 2 Cure: http://girls.girlpower2cure.org/abby

Thank you - PASS IT ON!

Terri

Saturday, October 1, 2011

October

I hate October. I really do.

I have decided at least for this 1st October postt that I'm not going to go over our sob story once again..It's here..in the past..several times and it's about time I accepted my daughter the way she is and stop mourning the what could of been. Wow that was hard to say.

With October comes Rett Syndrome Awareness Month and the push for education,equal rights and awareness. Somewhere,sometime, I will have to tell the story. I hate it and just don't want to anymore. I have got to make this positive somehow or I will never be ale to move on.

What stinks is D day is in October. Diagnosis day. You remember it on that day like the ...well like the day someone died. May sound terrible and we don't all day it out loud but that's it. The day our dreams and our livees died and we had to pull ourselves from the rubble, This October marks 5 years. You would think at some point one would be able to move on without posting a blog about how much she needs to move on while gasping for breath and choking on her own tears.

ok...I neeed a break....

This year I will be happy. I will not lay in bed on the 26th. One day I wont even notice it'ss the 26th.

I kinda screwed the pooch on the I will survive post here.

Better to come

Monday, September 26, 2011

Abby's 7th Birthday!!!!!!!

For Abby's 7th birthday I combined our Dora theme with our Girl Power motto!






It was a fantastic day with great friends and families

Emma Bear





Our Diego








Alex and me. I love this kid








Kaiya and Rhianna. They rule









Alyssa is not used to sharing us and was not amused.








Wonderful group of people









Our friend. Noel. He rocks. So much personality and charm









My babies







The fam







At school today thinking she's queen of the world








After school today. This is the face that greeted me. I love you baby girl. Today,Forever and Always



Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Abby enjoying school

Here's a few pics of Abby actually participating. This is one her first grade peers. These kids really go out of their way to include her She had this girl in her class last year. She invited her to her 1st birthday party




This is Abby with Mr A. I hear that he is very protective and carries Abby's purple card in his pocket every day!




Soing the lift the parachute. Is that what its called??




Love getting to see her be normal. All I ever wanted



Abby in her approval position during music therapy


Abby testing out a Dynavox eye max in the therapy room





Monday, September 12, 2011

Sleepy day

Hey everyone. Look at Lil pink Sleeping Beauty here. This was one day last week after she had slept 10 hours. They get her out of her chair and make her walk until she wakes up but, she simply was NOT having it this day I wish I could ever be this comfortable. Unfortanately it's the seizure med followed by an hour ride to school that knocks her out


Her 1st grade peers from her inclusion class. They love her regardless. Especially the boy here. Quite taken with her


Time for music class. Hello???



How bout a lil circle time Abby? No?



I am not thrilled that she is sleeping so much at school but I am pretty happy that she is included and loved..even if she wont respond some days.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

More uses for iPAD

Before I talk about the pics below I wanted to tell you that I got 2 astonishing reports that Abby is walking the entire school, 2 days in a row and only had one fall.
With Rett Syndrome comes many loses as you are well aware. Abby's walking comes and goes but she has never regained her ability to crawl.
Lately she has gone from couch to floor time and she fights us by flopping over. For some reason she will not make an attempt while we are watching.

This 1st pic was her making it from the couch to the floor with a thud when I moved her iPAD.
10 minutes later I came in to find this. Now, we all know I peeked. There was alot of rolling and scooting but she made it! More soon. So proud